It has been difficult for me to understand much of what is
happening politically and socially in our nation right now. In so many ways I am naive. But with the latest discussion regarding
Trump’s comments about women some of the fog in my mind has cleared.
My childhood included seeing three restrooms and two water
fountains everywhere I went: Men, women
and colored, White and Colored. I grew
up in the Ozzie and Harriet world. I
grew up when every elected official south of the Mason Dixon line was a
Democrat. I grew up when smoking was
cool. My family did not own a TV until I
was 8 years old and the shows were all black and white. I grew up when the CEO and Congress were all
men, almost all white men. I grew up
seeing the riots in Watts and at the Democratic convention in Chicago. I grew up when there was both a draft and a
war and women were not part of the effort except in voluntary support
roles. I grew up at a time when the
locker room talk among high school boys and those men who did not mature beyond
high school was similar to Trump’s comments.
I grew up at a time it was just assumed that women and Blacks were
somehow inferior to white males. I grew
up in a time when people with special needs were ignored and kept at home. I grew up in a time when being homosexual was
a deep, dark secret. I grew up in a time
where using slang words for Muslims, Blacks and women was OK. It was politically correct to use
discriminatory language for any group that was perceived to be sub-white
male: wet-backs, niggers, fags, retards,
pussies, camel jocks, and on and on.
I am naive in that I thought as a nation, as a pool of human
beings, we had progressed beyond the acceptance of such nonsense in the 1950’s
through the confrontation of such nonsense in the 1960’s to a world of
accepting diversity, to a world where we all recognize that every race, every
ethnic group, both genders, and people of various sexual preferences have the
potential to make major, positive contributions to our world. Contributions that are not grounded in
characteristics determined at birth and religious belief or absence thereof,
and determined by zip code. More than
that, I thought we had reached a time when we recognized the inherent worth of
humanity. I have been foolishly wrong.
I get it now when Trump says “Make America Great Again.” He wants to return to the time when white men
ruled and there was no such thing as being politically correct. He can wave his arm and make derogatory
remarks about all women and individual women and that should be OK. He can wave his arm and make generalized
statements regarding immigrants to this country. He can mock people with special needs. He can wave his arm and make generalized
statements about any group that in his 1950’s mind merits a slang term.
Political correctness, that is eliminating bias and
discrimination from our speech and our behavior, is in fact moral
correctness. If one believes we can
prejudge entire groups of human beings and lump them under some derogatory
heading, then one feels freed from both political correctness and moral
correctness. And people who still harbor
those old 1950’s notions that were part of our heritage at the time have not
matured socially or morally. Women did
not earn the right to vote until 1920, and even then the vote was very
close. It was not until 1900 that women throughout
the nation could own property separate from their husbands. Blacks earned the right to vote in 1870, 50
years before women. It has always been
assumed in this nation that white males, especially white males who own
property, have the right to vote and control.
Political correctness is our effort to express our moral
correctness. Any effort to return to the
days of discriminatory language and behavior is, by definition morally wrong.
I hear pundits including women saying ignore Trump’s
comments in all these areas. Boys will
be boys. Poppycock and balderdash. To forgive Trump is to sink to a moral depth
we should have escaped by now. To
forgive Trump is to return to the time where discrimination was politically
acceptable. Such a regression is
immoral. It represents a culture and
belief system that is immoral. It
represents our bigoted childhood which we should have abandoned long ago. It should never, ever be the model we wish to
re-establish. It is wrong.
So, if it bothers you that I carefully edit my language to
exclude discriminatory nouns and adjectives it is because I believe human
beings regardless of characteristics deserve our respect. Anything we say or do that implies some
humans are inferior to or subordinate to other human beings is morally wrong. Political correctness is moral
correctness. Abandoning that is not
returning to a time of greatness. It is
sinking to a depth of moral morass from which we should have escaped to higher ground
long ago.
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