Parents of home schooled children
have long baffled me. I am a
professional educator. I have 130
graduate hours past the master’s degree.
I am certified to teach the entire realm of social sciences. My wife is an elementary teacher and an
expert in the instruction of math. She
has almost 40 years experience. Neither
of us perceives ourselves qualified to home school our children. We do not know enough to provide them the
depth of the curricular experience demanded today.
And, as parents, we were paying
our taxes for public education anyway.
Why would we pay for a service then refuse it? Why would we believe that somehow keeping our
kids at home would provide a better learning environment and better learning
opportunities than they would have at public school?
Yes, parents of home schooled
children have long baffled me. I am
disturbed to learn that there are about 1.5 million home schooled children in
this country, and that number is growing about 7% each year. How can this be? How can we be going backwards? In the earliest of days of our history and
throughout our western expansion, most kids were home schooled. The evolution of the full time teacher and
the one room school house was perceived to be an improvement over that
effort. The development of the
professionally trained teacher was perceived to be an improvement. Full-fledged schooling with multiple teacher
specialists, fine arts, psycho-kinetic arts, big yellow buses, cafeterias
serving food, clinics dispensing health and safety and counselors providing emotional
growth and succor are surely an advancement over the pioneer home schooled and the
one-room school house. And yet, the
numbers of home schooled kids are growing.
How can this be?
Because I so totally disagreed
with the notion I assumed the worst about such parents. I assumed they home schooled to avoid the
racial and economic diversity found in public schools. I assumed they home schooled because the
tenets of their religious beliefs were in conflict with what we scientifically know
to be true. I assumed they home schooled
out of a sense of protectionism for their children that nurtured co-dependency
rather than independence. I assumed they
home schooled out of a sense of arrogance, a sense that as an individual parent
they perceived they could provide this opportunity better than our hallowed
public institution. I believe none of
the above reasons are moral reasons and therefore viewed the home school
movement as an immoral movement devoted to nurturing and developing young people
who remain dependent and cocooned.
Worse, remain ignorant. It made as
much sense to me as home medical treatment when no one in the house was a
medical doctor. Would a parent perform
an appendectomy on their own child?
Surgeons know better than to do that.
What in the world is going on?
Then I met a lady at church. I liked her.
I knew her family. I held her in high regard. Then I learned she home schools her kids. She does not have horns.
And then I looked at the
data. Turns out that home schooled
students perform overall in the 77th percentile academically. They are in the 79th and 73rd
percentiles respectively in reading and math.
That is really pretty good. That
means they are outperforming 79% of their peers on reading tests and 73% of
their peers on math tests. How could we
fault such outcomes even if the assumptions regarding the parental decision-making
to shelter and teach at home are spurious?
Then I got it. 70% of the parents who home school their
children have 4 or fewer kids at home.
The results of home schooled children on standardized tests is less a
measure of the knowledge base and skills held by the parental teacher and more
a confirmation of what we have long known to be the impact of class-size on
learning and the impact of a student-centered approach to learning. And that makes sense to me.
In our elementary schools we
literally train our students to synchronize their bladders and stomachs. A child may not pee nor eat until it is time
for all their peers to pee or eat. We do
that because the number of kids so dramatically outnumbers the number of adults,
and our facilities are not capable of handling random peeing or random breakfasts
or lunches or snacks. School administrators
must organize those events so that every kid gets to pee and gets to eat
regardless of their needs. Home schooled
kids have no such organization. It is
hard to imagine a parent denying their own child the opportunity to go to the
bathroom once the child reports the need to do so. The facilities can handle it. They are not likely to get into mischief
between where they learn and the bathroom.
It is totally safe to let them transverse the distance in their houses
sans escort. The same is true of
hunger. The parent knows what the kid
ate and when. If hours later the kids
reports hunger issues the parent most likely concurs and provides
nourishment. Not in public schools. In schools, they must wait their turn
regardless of the degree of stomach emptiness.
Likewise, for the home schooled child if the light is too bright it can
be dimmed, if too dimmed it can be enhanced.
If the chair is uncomfortable the kid can move. If the kid is hot the thermostat will be
adjusted. The climate and the facilities
are totally under the control of the parent/teacher.
Not true in public schools where
central chiller systems are controlled remotely by computer and everyone is
assigned a temperature of median comfort, not too hot, not too cold, and if
anyone, teacher or kid, is uncomfortable with the median they must dress
appropriately. The temperature is
governed by the masses not the individual.
The food is delivered on a schedule not based on the individual’s needs
or tastes. Even the trip to the bathroom
is standardized. None of this is true
for the home schooled kid. For the home
schooled kid even transportation is in the comfort of a personal vehicle where
the driver can be creative and independent, not a large uncomfortable bus that
must follow a given route on schedule. They
and their parents are masters of their instructional climate and their learning
environment.
And how about actual
instruction? Regardless of the parent’s
degree of expertise in the curriculum and/or training in lesson planning, classroom
management, blood borne pathogens, suicide prevention, teen dating issues, use
of technology, review of resources, differentiated instruction, inclusion, IEP’s,
state standards and preparation strategies for state mandated high stakes
tests, the parents somehow teach their kids.
I believe they do so because virtually none of the required knowledge
imposed on public school teachers would make any sense if they had a class of 3
and the class was totally homogenous.
Further, the parent can instantly detect when any of their progeny
encounters a problem and move quickly to facilitate learning. There may even be some long term benefits to
teaching kids total problem solving and analysis once the curriculum
dramatically exceeds the parents understanding.
Hard to picture a parent equipped to teach calculus, British literature,
chemistry and economics, not to mention Spanish or French. If the kid can learn to teach him or herself
then they are miles ahead of others.
Why miles ahead? Schools are structured around the shotgun
approach. Teachers are given 20 to 40
kids and told to teach them a certain subject where the content most likely has
been prescribed by a government mandate.
The notion of teaching such a large group takes a back seat to crowd
control. The ability of a teacher to
instantly detect and correct learning obstacles is virtually impossible with
those numbers. The ability of a teacher
to customize the learning for each and every student in such a classroom is
literally impossible. Kids must learn to
conform in order to learn. They must
learn to be quiet, keeps their hands to themselves, avoid distracting others,
and never to ask questions that are to be covered 10 minutes from now because
the learning must be regimented like the bladder. It must be regimented because we are so outnumbered. We dispense learning in a regimented manner all
too quickly, before the bell rings, before the bathroom break, before lunch and
before the pep rally. Teachers do not
have the ability to decide they need a little more time on this concept, or
perhaps a little less. There is little
time for individualization of the learning for each kid. Should a kid fall behind in learning, we
develop tiers and kids’ schedules are modified to accommodate another round of
instruction in a smaller setting. Guess
what? That tends to work.
I see the home school movement in
a very different light now. I see it as
daily confirmation for the need to achieve a minimal class size and
individualized instruction. Most of the
parental complaints I receive as an administrator have to do with our
standardization requirements. Those
would disappear if we could get class size to about 4 to 1, even 5 to 1. On the other hand, most of the complaints
from our constituency outside the school are that we make exceptions. The public believes if we have a rule it
should be universally enforced regardless of circumstance. Catch 22.
Why don’t we do that? Why don’t we give each teacher control of his
or her thermostat and the bell schedule?
Why don’t we allow kids to go to the bathroom when they want or eat when
they want? Because we cannot afford to
do so. Our AC system is the cheapest
money can buy and controllable so we do not consume too much electricity. Our cadre of teachers tends to be the fewest
the law allows triggering the largest class size the law allows. (We could have more teachers if we paid them
less, or vice-versa.) Our bathrooms and
cafeterias are not equipped to handle the trickle in approach, no pun
intended. We are not designed to be a
customized service agency. We are a mass
producer. We are such because of
funding. We have about 50 teachers on an
elementary campus of 800 kids. That is
about 16 kids per teacher which is really pretty good for a public school. (In reality, the numbers are much higher
after we take out the specialists, PE, etc.)
Were we to provide a teacher for every 4 kids we would need 200
teachers. We do not have a facility
large enough or designed in a way that could accommodate 200 teachers. We would not need classrooms but a series of
little conference rooms each equipped with all the technology we now demand per
classroom. Our cost of increasing the
number of teachers by a factor of 4 would be astronomical. The entire district budget would have to be 4
times larger to accomplish this up and down the grade levels. We cannot afford it, nor can the tax payer.
The parent of a home schooled child can. He or she does not need facility
modification. The salary is
non-existent, the class size at the micro level. In this light, if the home schooled kids did
not do better than the public school kids there would be a serious problem.
The problem of course, is that few
of our most challenging students come from homes with parents equipped at all
to provide home school instruction. We have
many students with disabilities, many students whose home life is chaotic, many
students of poverty. If we are serious
about educating all kids we must seek to provide a learning climate more like
home schooled kids enjoy. We must seek
to provide a class size teacher/pupil ratio that resembles what home schooled
kids enjoy. We must seek to provide a
kid-centered school, a school aware of and sensitive to the individual kid’s
learning and needs. I firmly believe if
we did so we would totally outperform home schooled students. And private schooled students and charter
schooled students.
It just would cost too much. America has somehow been sold on the notion
that when it comes to public schools the solution for improvement is not to
throw money at it. I disagree. We have never tested that theory, or if we
have it has been using the drop in the bucket method. My system has a $12 million dollar
budget. Some years we get an additional $100,000
and that is nice, but it does not allow substantial overhaul of our current
system. Give me revenue of $48 million
and I could really make a difference.
I still do not support home
schooling. I still do not think that
home schooling is the solution to our challenge of educating all kids. I still do not think we should encourage
parents to home school. I still worry
about what those kids really learn and what enrichment experiences they really
have. But at least I think I know why
some parents are so successful with home schooled kids. And I still value my new friend who home
schools her kids. In fact, I owe her for
making me take another look.
I thought all this out at
home. Guess you know what that makes me.
However, I much prefer to be in a public
school. An administrator in public
school whose heart is in the right place can move the system toward an individualized
kid orientation and away from ever more standardized rule enforcement and
regimentation. In fact, an administrator
whose heart is in the right place can do the same for teachers. As we can make class size lower, we
should. As we can make the learning experience
more customized to the individual kid, we should. As we can empower teachers to be more in
control and responsible for their learning environment, we should. We have not done so. Yet.
To pee or not to pee, that is the
question. Time we started arguing for
the resources to provide the appropriate learning environment to always answer
that question with, “It is up to you.”